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Let's make your dance the best part of your wedding.

Planning your first dance can feel stressful and awkward when you do not know where to start or when traditional dance advice does not feel designed for couples like you.

But when you learn a few simple moves and follow a clear step-by-step structure, everything changes. Instead of swaying and hoping the song ends quickly, you can create a dance that feels natural, confident, and truly reflective of your relationship.

Your first dance becomes more than just a tradition. It becomes one of the most meaningful moments of your wedding day.

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Give the course a try for 14 days. If you decide it is not the right fit for your first dance, simply reach out and we will refund your purchase. No questions asked.

Sneak Peak Into the Modules...

  1. Introduction to Queer Wedding Dance

    1. Welcome!
    2. Choosing Leader & Follower (or not!)
    3. Setting Intentions for Your Dance
    4. Tips for Practice
    5. Remember, You're Just Walking!

  2. The Basics

    1. Frame & Posture
    2. Progressive Basic
    3. Rotating Basic
    4. Floor Craft
    5. Hand Position Glossary

  3. Turning

    1. How to Turn
    2. Types of Turns
    3. Upper Body Turning Technique
    4. Foxy Outside Turn
    5. Turn Variation
    6. Check Point 1

  4. The Frills

    1. The Cuddle
    2. Check Point 2
    3. Rolling In
    4. Check Point 3
    5. Sways
    6. Check Point 4
    7. Walk Arounds

  5. Dips, Leans, & Lifts

    1. Dips & Ending Poses
    2. Leans
    3. Check Point 5
    4. Check Point 6
    5. Lifts
    6. My Fave Sequences
    7. Check Point 7
    8. Check Point 8
    9. Modified Entrance for Dips & Leans

  6. Entrances

    1. Entrance Ideas

  7. Switching Lead & Follow

    1. How to Switch Lead & Follow

  8. Modifications

    1. Height Modifications
    2. Cuddle Modification

  9. Floor Craft

    1. Choosing Your Front

  10. Music & Timing

    1. Music Anatomy
    2. Finding the Right Timing

  11. Demos

    1. Demo - Lifts
    2. Demo - No Lifts
    3. Demo - No Lifts, Dips or Leans
    4. Demo - Short on Time
    5. Demo - Switching Lead & Follow

  12. Final Tips

    1. Quick Tips for Practice
    2. Congratulations!

  13. BONUS: Example Custom Dances

    1. One-Leader Example Dances
    2. Two-Leader Dances
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Hi, I'm Elaine!

I’m a wedding dance instructor who helps queer couples create first dances that feel natural, connected, and true to their relationship.

Over the years I’ve guided hundreds of couples through the process of building a dance they feel proud and excited to share on their wedding day.

My work has been recognized with The Knot’s “Best of Weddings” award two years in a row.

Now I’m bringing the same approach online so couples anywhere can learn how to create a beautiful first dance step by step.

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Ready to Create a First Dance That Feels Like You?

You deserve a first dance that feels joyful, natural, and truly reflective of your relationship. Not something stiff, awkward, or built around traditions that do not feel like you.

Inside this course, you will learn a simple step-by-step system that shows you exactly how to build your dance from the ground up. No dance experience required. No complicated choreography. Just clear guidance that helps you create a moment you will feel proud to share on your wedding day.

Instead of worrying about what to do on the dance floor, you will feel confident, connected, and excited for one of the most meaningful moments of your celebration.

And the best part? You can learn everything from the comfort of your own home, practicing together at your own pace.

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Have Questions about if 'Create Your Queer Wedding Dance' is right for you?

We're here to help! 

You deserve to feel confident about your first dance

Too many couples try to figure out their wedding dance on their own. You might think you are saving time by just “winging it” or swaying through the moment, but what often happens is unnecessary stress, awkwardness, and a moment that does not feel as special as it could.

What if you could learn a simple, step-by-step system that helps you and your partner create a natural, confident first dance without complicated choreography or traditional roles that do not fit your relationship?

That is exactly what this course is designed to help you do.

You do not have to figure this out on your own. Inside the course, you will learn a clear method that shows you how to build a beautiful first dance together from start to finish.

Start today and create a wedding dance that truly celebrates your love.

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 Have any questions? Don't hesitate to reach out! 

elaineandersondance@gmail.com / elaineandersondance.com