3 secrets every queer couple should know before starting their first dance 

- So It Actually Feels Like You


Most couples think their first dance is either awkward swaying or choreography that doesn't feel like them. But there's a third option.

Hi, I'm Elaine.

(and my fiance, Toddie, is next to me!)

I'm a queer wedding dance instructor with over 10 years of ballroom experience.

As a queer person planning a wedding myself, I know how frustrating it can be when most wedding dance advice assumes couples fit into the same traditional roles or relationship dynamics.

That's why I created a simple approach that teaches queer couples the foundations of partner dancing so they can build a first dance that feels natural, inclusive, and true to their relationship.

Let's get started, Elaine!!