Have a Plan, But Still Feel Like Yourselves

- Free Queer Wedding Dance Lesson


Learn the foundations of a first dance that feels natural, connected, and true to your relationship — without forcing traditional roles or stiff choreography.

Hi, I'm Elaine.

(and my fiance, Toddie, is next to me!)

I'm a queer wedding dance instructor with over 10 years of ballroom experience.

As a queer person planning a wedding myself, I know how frustrating it can be when most wedding dance advice assumes couples fit into the same traditional roles or relationship dynamics.

That's why I created a simple approach that teaches queer couples the foundations of partner dancing so they can build a first dance that feels natural, inclusive, and true to their relationship.

Ok, I'm convinced!!

The couples that danced before you...

Let's get dancing, Elaine!!